Summer š & Substance Use š: What to Know and How to Help
- Jul 14, 2025
- 5 min read
Summer is often seen as a break from the grindāno early alarms, fewer responsibilities, and more time to relax. But with less structure and more downtime, summer can also be a period when risk-taking increasesāincluding experimentation with drugs and alcohol.
As a therapist who works with adolescents and young adults, I often see summer as a time when my clients have more time to relax, recharge, visit loved ones, and engage more frequently in activities that are meaningful to them. However, particularly for younger clients, it can also be a time when healthy routines slip, peer influence ramps up, and opportunities for unsupervised experimentation multiply. Understanding why substance use may spike during this timeāand how to respondācan help parents and teens navigate the season more safely and intentionally.
āļø Why Summer Can Increase Risk
1. Less Structure = More Opportunity Without the regular routine of school, idle time increases. Boredom and curiosity can quickly turn into risk-taking, especially if there are few meaningful alternative ways to fill time (think: sports practices or camps, service trips, family vacations, volunteer hours, summer jobs.
2. Social Gatherings and Social Pressure Camping trips, concerts, pool partiesāsummer often brings more chances to socialize. While these can be healthy and fun, they can also introduce environments where drugs or alcohol are present and social pressure is high.
3. Increased Independence Especially with the increased freedom driving brings (or, in the case of Boulder, e-biking around town), staying out later, or spending more nights away from home, there may be greater exposure to certain choices and risks.
This doesn't mean you need to over-structure your teen's summer schedule or limit independence and friend time in an attempt to reduce risk. Rather, consider having healthy, open conversation about expectations and boundaries as well as about handling risk and social pressure so your teen is more equipped if difficult situations do arise.
ā ļø Signs to Watch For
Substance use doesn't always look like what parents expect. Warning signs might include:
Changes in sleep patterns
Sudden shifts in friend groups
Withdrawing from family activities
Withdrawing from typically valued activities
Secretive behavior or dishonesty
Mood swings or irritability
Drop in motivation or hygiene
These signs donāt always point to substance use. In fact, many can be signs of underlying mental health issues such as depression or anxiety. However, they are signals worth paying attention to and discussing openly in order to get your teen the help and support that;s needed.
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Itās normal for parents to feel anxious about these possibilitiesābut conversations about substance use donāt have to be confrontational. In fact, the most effective ones often arenāt.
Here are a few tips for starting the conversation:
Stay curious, not accusatory:āIāve noticed youāve been hanging with a new groupāhow has that been going?ā
Lead with concern, not judgment:āI just want to make sure youāre safe and feeling supported...how can I help?ā
Keep the door open:āI want you to know you can always come to me if youāre in a situation you donāt know how to handleāeven if itās about drugs or alcohol.ā
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Summer can also be a time for growth, discovery, and connection. Encouraging your teen to find structure in their daysāwhether through a part-time job, volunteering, summer programs, or creative outletsācan reduce boredom and increase protective factors.
š° If Youāre Concerned
If you suspect your teen is using substances or struggling with peer pressure, you're not aloneāand you donāt have to navigate it alone. Therapy can offer a supportive, confidential space for teens to explore whatās going on beneath the surface. Whether itās stress, anxiety, depression, identity confusion, or the simple desire to fit in, these underlying factors often drive risk-taking behavior.
Working with a mental health professional can also support families in rebuilding trust and improving communicationāso that your teen knows home is a safe place to land, no matter what.
Summer is a unique season in a teenās lifeāfull of potential, freedom, and vulnerability. By staying connected, creating opportunities for growth, and having open conversations, families can make the most of the season while minimizing the risks.
If you're a parent or teen looking for support navigating this summer season, Iām here to help! Use the "Request Appt" tool in the upper righthand corner or email me directly at kelli@drkellitahaney.com.
Resources for Support
Whether youāre looking for general information or local services in Boulder, CO ā here are reliable resources for teens, parents, and families:
š National Resources (online / 24/7 support)
SAMHSA Treatment Locator ā National, confidential database to find local substance-use and mentalāhealth services
NAMI Teen & Young Adult HelpLine ā Free peerāsupport via phone/text/chat MonāFri, 10āÆaā10āÆp ET at 1ā800ā950ā6264 or text Friend to 62640
Teen Line ā Anonymous peer-to-peer support: call 800ā852ā8336 or text 839ā863 (6ā10āÆpāÆPST)
SMART Recovery ā Nonāreligious mutualāsupport meetings with local options
AA or NA ā Search for "young people's" meetings. Online and in-person (may need to navigate to AA/NA site for your geographic area) meetings are available.
š BoulderāArea Resources
These are accessible with or without insurance and tailored to teens and families:
Mental Health Partners (MHP) Walkāin crisis & addiction services open 24/7, including detox, outpatient, group therapy, and youth programming.š 3180 Airport Road, Boulder, CO ⢠303ā443ā8500
NAMI Boulder Ā āĀ Mental Health resources in the Boulder area
FullCircle Program (Boulder) Peer support, 12āstep groups, sober socials, individual sessionsāno cost for teens, young adults, and parents.š 4939 N Broadway #59 ⢠(720) 787ā7996
Boulder Substance Use & Mental Health Resources Search addiction and MH resources in the Boulder area via Recovery.com
BVSD Mental Health Services Free counseling, crisis intervention, and family education via school-based providers. Phone: 303ā447ā1010
The Redpoint Center (Outpatient for Teens) Intensive outpatient (IOP) and partialāhospital programs treating substance-use and co-occurring disorders
Porchlight Boulder MAT (Medications for Addiction Treatment) Services in Boulder
ā How to Choose Whatās Best
In crisis/harm to self or others? Call 988 Colorado Mental Health Line (text/call 988), stop by MHPās walk-in center, or go to an Emergency Department. Denver Health (30-45min drive from Boulder) has excellent substance use treatment programs and resources.
Exploring or early signs? Try peer support (FullCircle, SMART Recovery, Alcoholics Anonymous/Narcotics Anonymous - search mtgs for young people), earlyāintervention programs, or talk to school counselors or therapists like myself (request a consult appointment with the turquoise button on the top right of this page).
Treatment needed? Inquire with MHP, Redpoint, Denver Health, Porchlight Boulder, or request a consult appointment with me. Even if I'm not the best fit I can help guide you to other resources or treatment centers that are.
Staying Connected & Proactive
Follow-up is key: Donāt just connect onceābuild ongoing engagement with peers, counselors, and trusted adults.
Normalize help-seeking: Encourage conversations like āItās OK to ask for helpā and model that behavior.
Parent involvement matters: Participate in support groups and therapy with your teen to reinforce trust and communication.

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